On oct 4th 2012 on my way to mumbai via ethiopia i have to wait in djibouti for 36hrs, went to 'BAVARIA LES ACACIAS' hotel, there the room was not available so i have to wait for 1hr for room, there was another person who was waiting just like me for room, he came to me and wished me and said 'my name is 'HASAN' and me to waiting for room,so to cover 1hr we both went round the hotel to have an outside view..
About the person ' he was old nearly 50 years of age short and fat from EGYPT' he was scaning each and every women and commenting every girl, simply he was like a playboy type... i thought even at the age of 50 his heart was still at 20's.... we both again went near the reception and enquired about the room so again we have to wait for sometime as there was no room available...so we thought of having lunch
While eating we discussed about our reasons to come here and about our jobs, i was not comfortable with him as he was watching each and every girl and appreciating every girl who came to serve our food, so finished my lunch quickly and went near reception so luckly got the room and took rest, while leaving receptionist informed me that in hotel they have a musical program in the evening.. i said ok i'll attend.
After taking some rest, in the evening i went near the pool.. there the people were arranging for the program, so i was roaming round the pool, after some time again the same old man came to enjoy the program, we greet each other and as the program was not started we had a walk...and we were talking about our life's..as both of our jobs some what relates, we connected quickly. I asked him as u have to travel always so 'don't you miss ur wife and ur family?' he said it is better to travel new places and be away from wife than to be with wife in home'( a routine answer which u expect from a married person) but he said he's missing his children..So meanwhile in the chat musical program started, but our discussion went more deeper and more personal..he started his personal story
As u know his name is 'HASAN' from EGYPT, he started his story by saying that he started earning money in NDT field at the age of 18years, he started his career as a helper to person in Radiographic Testing, after that step by step he qualified all the exams related to NDT. after gaining 20-25years of experience he started a company of his own and earned money like anything..and he said 'he worked day and night to earn money'.... then i asked him 'if u run a company then y u came to this country for working'?
For that he said 'ya i used to run a company but know that company is no more' i asked 'y? what happened'? Then he said 'For my 1st wife i have 4 children(3boys 1 girl), for my 2nd wife 6children(3times twins[all boys]) and for 3rd wife 3kids[2boys 1 girl].. I was shocked after hearing to this.... i asked him how can u leave ur big family in home and work at this age..?
For that he said 'no my friend, actually what happened was.... as u know i started my company and my 1st wife 2sons and my daughter were handling the company so i used to go out to catch the projects....so in 2007 i went to paris for a big project at that time all my company matters were handled by my 1st wife children and 2nd wife children so at that time there was a small dispute between my 1st, 2nd wife with 3rd wife.. so my 3rd wife is staying away from my big home....so when i reached home all of a sudden situations changed in my home..he said ' he maintained a good relation with all the3 wife's but he gave another home to his 3rd wife and used live with her separately'....
He said that 'after some days everything went normal, so after some days there was a function in my home my 2nd wife son's marriage, after marriage we all went to a vaction with my 1st wife children and there kids and 2nd wife and with newly married son's..My 3rdwife was away from my 1st and 2nd wife so she and her kids were away from that vacation...so my 1st wife family and 2nd wife family along with me went to vacation.... we all went in one big car
He said' on the way to our vacation all my 10 children 2 wife's and all my grand children were dead' i was shocked i asked how what happened?? he said on the way one big truck came diagonally at a very high speed all my family cut in to pieces.. i was the only person who was alive from that accident..i was in the coma for 6 months and when i was out from coma i got heart attack when i came to know my family was dead and i was taken to england for treatment and after 3months of treatment i became normal..
Then i asked wht happened to your company now, he said ' as u know all my comapany matters were handled by my children.. after the death of my family i was in coma, my 3rd wife was away from my company at this time some people in my company sold all my equipments at very cheap rate and now i don't have money to run a NDT company, with my friends references in companies i again started as a welding engineer, and now i am working as a 3rd party inspector.. He said that 'now he is staying with his 3rd wife in egypt, his 1st son is a lawyer, 2nd son studying engineering and his daughter is in 3rd class'.
After this narration i observed that his face was not normal, left eye was some what inside, his head was not normal(some operation has been done), and he cannot hear with his left ear.. i felt may be these changes are because of that accident..
So what i want to tell is 'though how much u earn money legally or illegally it is not constant till the end' so what ever you earn u be happy with ur family but donate some money to those who need it because atleast some people may be happy with that money which is not constant, rather than loosing ur money at any point of ur life.
Be happy and make others happy
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